All the best to you on your new job. Good for you respecting yourself and letting your H know that living together, for his reasons, is not for the best. Not everyone would make a choice as smart and strong. Your H saying he wants to be with his mom, sounds like hes not in a good space mentally at all. Hope he one day gets whatever help he needs.
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope