All the best to you on your new job. Good for you respecting yourself and letting your H know that living together, for his reasons, is not for the best. Not everyone would make a choice as smart and strong. Your H saying he wants to be with his mom, sounds like hes not in a good space mentally at all. Hope he one day gets whatever help he needs.


me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope