I think maybe you are thinking of my friend the CPA.

Well I have already talked to two different attorney's and the one that has been recommened to me several times as a real go getter and D specialist is $200 just to go in and talk to her so I haven't done that yet.

So actually the first step is I need to decide what direction to go on an A.

You don't think David will see my hiring an A and starting to work on the counter proposal as a sign that I no longer want to work on the marriage?

That is one of the reasons I have been putting it off, plus not sure which A, and just hating to do it period.

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"