OK.
So what do i do now?

I know at the very least, the below are my-to-do-list:
I'm going to change all my passwords to my accounts.
I'm going to move out.
I'm going to trust W to handle our kids well.
I'm going to focus on my project.
I'm going to shut up about W's affair.

Do i need to validate her feelings when she brings up past grievance again? Frankly i'm tired of doing this when she does not want to address the real question in hand and deviate to her past grievance. I don't know why she does that all the time.


M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet