"I was going to safe keep the emails and speak to one of W's relative. I want her to know what had actually transpired and to keep this secret for me because I would want her to help keep an eye on my kids. Right now i do not trust OM and W."

This is a long shot. I doubt she's going to be on your side. You can not trust anybody right now but yourself when it comes to your children. Draft something up right now and present it to your L. You want 50% custody if not, mon & tues (or whatever works for you) kids stay with you and alternate the weekends in your home--this will be your "unrestricted visitation schedule".

Your W will tell you anything right now to get you off her back...so get the legal system to protect you. If she is truthful about you getting the kids any weekends you want, then this shouldn't be a problem for her.

me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.