Well, have been in my own place for a month now. Lonely without my girls. They are away for a week with their mom. The I get them Friday for my D11 baseball tournament in another city and then not for 2 days then a week vacation with me to round out he summer. Access schedule starts September 3rd. Still a battle to round out finances and xW does not respond to closing out accounts etc. I can't shut them without her contribution to he debt. We are making offer to settle next week on financials. She will owe me about $10k from post separation expenses. I don't think she gets that and she expects a big payout to her. Numbers are numbers though and she can't fight it (well she can). I see her litigating again and losing again. Still don't know what I did to deserve the hate and vitriol. Maybe the nasty words after she cheated? All I can think of....I also could have called her worse. She is still spending but now it will be her debt, not mine. She will never be happy but puts on a good front of being so. A couple friends have told me they are seeing through the fake now. I feel a little lonely tonight. Gotta get used to it. Just me and the dog.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
