Hi PIB,

He has stopped contacting me, we only have contact now if I initiate something.

Except for our monthly hair appointments there is nothing there anymore, that is one of the reasons I feel he has made up his mind.

I know Zoo would probably saying I'm being stubborn and obtuse here, but this is apparently an area I do really struggle in. Do I not see reality? Do I always look at the negative so can't come up with an impartial view?

If he were a more decisivie person I would say that coming over for a visit was a baby step, but I'm not sure he didn't just come over out of a sense of guilt to repair some things and vist FB.

I don't want to be being difficult here, this is actually difficult for me to see clearly. I guess it is where I think emotionally rather than logically.

I don't think you missed any goals! As a matter of fact I think you might have added one!

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"