pay no mind to the demons; they fill you w/fear

[Whiterose]

Oh well, I guess be grateful for little blessings, eh kml

I wonder where he's getting the cash? Will I be asked to pay that portion of the mortgage this week?

He has a more expensive car and a pension through work. It's a very small pension as he just stated a year ago and I have some money put away for retirement. There are no other savings or anything.

Snodderly,
He did want the appraiser but I asked if we could forgo it to save the money. Then in the texts, posted earlie, he was asking what it needs to come in at as he's trying to get his fair share but doesn't want to make it impossible for me. How kind of him, but after I told him I was going to the mortgage broker and was looking into added income he wanted the lawyers to do it. I'm thinking he got the letter from my lawyer today

" i have now heard back from my client re the house. She is hoping to find a co-signer in order to purchase your client’s interest in that asset, therefore she is not prepared to list the home. Until she is able to confirm that she has a co-signer, there is no point in the parties incurring the expense of an appraisal. I expect my client to have the information she seeks in that regard by early September, 2013.

Relative to your question re the mortgage payments, by client advises she is currently carrying all family expenses other than the mortgage, and in fact was called on to assist even with the mortgage as well as your client advised he was out of funds. Given the income of the parties, and the fact that both children remain with my client, your client is paying no more than he would be obliged to as child and spousal support. Further, the principal portion of the mortgage payment increases his equity as well as my client’s equity in that asset."

There was more about where the Honda is and that I want to see the papers for it or he needs to list it as an asset along with his truck.

I think he sees this.could take more time than he wants. He wants his money before Christmas He's obsessed