Figuring out the old and new life

[RosaLinda]

FY "She's also spent time figuring how others would take the news of her leaving. She doesn't want to be the bad guy. Which sometimes makes me wonder if this is really a MLC. Most MLC'ers don't care about their reputation or if they hurt others. Maybe she's a sensitive MLC'er?"

Hmmm, maybe! I think a sensitive woman would be worried about what people would think if she left  especially since her GF likes you so much. And would not want to be the bad guy. It seems that I've heard about a lot of MLCers who want their LBS to be the one to file for divorce. 

My H is not sensitive, but I think he's worried about what his mom would say if he left me. Or maybe he is just using my MIL as an excuse - back in my snooping after BD2, I found a message to RT saying H's mom had told him not to leave me. That, even though he does not love me, he should not leave me because he has stayed with me all these years. RT protested that his mom should not tell a 60 year old man what to do, so he changed it to he could not leave me because I had saved his life when he had a life threatening heart arrhythmia. Twice!  He such a frightful liar! I'm glad he lies to RT and not just me!

FY "So, sometimes we fret too much over our sitch, (I'm looking at you RosaLinda) and that's where I am right now. Time to exit the MLC museum and put the focus elsewhere.

Construction at work is winding down, I'm hoping to offer my TKD class again real soon. This class has been my favorite GAL by far.

I also signed up for a new online course, (my 4th since BD!) It's called "get funny" and teaches us how to be funny. So if I ever made you spit water, (I'm looking at you uRw) you might want to make sure to swallow before opening my posts."

You already make me laugh, so thanks for the warning about the drinks! That sounds like a super GAL! You are already funny so will just learn to become funnier! I wonder if they have any success with non-funny people like me? Can anyone take it?

I'm trying not to fret FY! How do you keep from fretting in the spare time between the GALs and work? I went to an outdoor jazz concert last night which is a first for me, and had coffee with a friend this morning, and worked all afternoon and am doing the overnight in the ER tonight. But still found plenty of free minutes to fret