Then you might be able to regain that access if you are legally entitled to do so. You might even be able to access the OM's emails. I would start looking into that and also keep an eye on your finances. One day, it could all be gone if she wants to keep it for herself.
I will speak with my solicitor in the morning. I requested that she returned my share of the marital home and she is willing to give monthly payments. She will call L in the morning and revise the agreement. I needed that money for my start-up. I don't even have a penny to my name. I'm broke as hell. I gave almost everything to W each month before the bomb. Don't have savings.
I will speak to W's relative and have the evidence shown to her. She is my only witness to the things that have transpired. At least someone from her family knows the truth and keep a secret. She can be trusted.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet