Awhh. Sorry to hear that. I had the same thing happen to me. denied anything the whole time seperated and just wanted out. Couldn't take living with me any longer.
Lawyer told me there's someone else to be prepared. I stood up for him. My family couldn't believe it either. Sure enough it came out 3 months after divorce was final.
Devestating even though I sorta knew. he denied denied denied and changed history. He still is with her after 3 years.
I don't know which hurts more... he left because he couldn't stand being with me anylonger or that he left for someone else.
Either way he is gone. The stab wound will heal over. But will always hurt.
Make a comeback is what my daughter keeps telling me. Working on it.
Stay strong. Prayers for you.
M: 49 H: 49 S23 D24 (disabled from car accident 6 yrs ago) M: 21yrs BD: 1 month after D home from hospital (after 6 months) D: 3/11/11 Moved: 10/11/11 to FL for SCI recovery X: engaged w/OW