Blindsided Part 2

[chl0901]

I'm so happy he didn't let the phone thing get to him too much and let it go. Its great to see you both are in a positive place and that you're still being cautious. Keep working hard on your 180s, I hope everything continues to get better and better!

Thanks, Mimi! Me too...it took him a few days, but he hasn't mentioned it in the past couple so I'm hoping he's let it go. I also hope to keep going in whatever positive direction this seems to be as well. I'll keep updating!

Try not to be too hard on yourself. We all make these mistakes but DBing most of the time makes a big difference over spending every day acting this way - which is what most of us would be doing without DB!

Thanks, lovethehub, that's so true! If I hadn't started my DB journey, I would definitely be a hot mess and driving my H crazy with my questions and nagging, etc. Thanks for the reminder.

If this keeps up it will be hard on your to keep your expectations in check but you must. Things could be over permanently and he may have realized what he wanted or he could 180 just like you said. Be careful, us WAS's can be back and forth, back and forth for a while.

There are many positives in here, so even if he is still confused and F's up again, it doesn't mean it has to be over.

Keep on keeping on!

I hoping this change in direction is where we continue heading, but am definitely cautious while also enjoying what's currently going on. Thanks for stopping by!