I do not know if he's done this in purpose but he changed my password and an email was sent to my alternative email. It says that this person with this mobile number was deleted from my account. The mobile number is OM's.
This confirms it. I printed out this evidence.
I know I shouldn't snoop and not forward those emails to myself. But OM is such a little F***** for doing this and leave bloody traces. W is in cahoots with him. Leaves a bad taste. Lost lots of respect for them.
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M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet
I'm not a Windows guy anymore, so I'm not sure. Google it and see if there are ways to scan for keylogging programs or just back up your data and reinstall Windows.
"How could he have hacked into my account? He's not even here."
Who knows, like you said he's an IT. He's also been in your house multiple times. She could blame you for invading her privacy, so don't admit to anything don't even bring it up for now.
"I do not know if he's done this in purpose but he changed my password and an email was sent to my alternative email. It says that this person with this mobile number was deleted from my account. The mobile number is OM's.
This confirms it. I printed out this evidence."
Imo, don't do anything right now until you talk to your L with your evidence.
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
Hold on. Before you go off the handle, I would seriously rethink this. You don't know for sure. AND the only person who would even know that those messages existed would have been your W. So she was involved in some way.
I understand you feel the "need" to "rescue" her, but the bottom line is that she's probably the one to blame. Just see if you can get the login records from the email company and see if they can track from what IP address the messages were searched from.
I suspect your W did it since you gave her the ultimatum and she wants to look innocent.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
Hold on. Before you go off the handle, I would seriously rethink this. You don't know for sure. AND the only person who would even know that those messages existed would have been your W. So she was involved in some way.
I'm pretty sure it's OM. His mobile number was exposed.
Originally Posted By: planet
I do not know if he's done this in purpose but he changed my password and an email was sent to my alternative email. It says that this person with this mobile number was deleted from my account. The mobile number is OM's.
Originally Posted By: MrBond
I suspect your W did it since you gave her the ultimatum and she wants to look innocent.
I was caught by surprise. I did not tell her i was leaving because of OM. He did not come up during our talk at all. W couldn't even manage simple picture editor. It's not her. No way she could have known my password because i'm using a software to fill in my passwords which is very long and difficult. Only an IT expert would and that can only be OM.
Originally Posted By: planet
L gave W a call to inform her of forms submission. She suspected something amiss but its just normal procedure. She questioned me and i unknowingly admitted meeting L in private. We had a long chat with W getting angry, threatening, crying and drag-the-past-grievance out. I validated her feelings and stopped her when things got too far especially about my parents. She even admitted that i have been good to her in the past.
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Incidentally, what was in the emails that were deleted?
It was exchanges between W and OM.
One from OM started with 'Dear' and just a list of diet program and ended with from 'baby'
Another was a booked air ticket send to OM and ended with 'lusm' from W
I was using the computer when she requested to use it for awhile. She left her webmail opened. I returned to the computer later. Again, she wants to use it but i left everything pretty much untouched. So she must have suspected and informed OM.
I don't quite remember the others but was also filled with 'lusm', 'dear', 'baby', etc.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet
