Ok...so how do you bring this up without sounding controlling? He wants freedom. He wants to be able to go out for drinks and me not nag him for going. And it's not that i care everytime if he does but he has been gone for 3 days out of town then worked the last two nights and informed me today he is going for wings tonight after the boys are in bed. I have him a sad look and he said "what? We are going away this weekend and ill be with you for 5 days straight. It's not a big deal"

The problem is lately his "Wing" nights turn into bar and 4 am nights. And we leave at 9 am for another holiday...

Am I being annoying? Is this fine and normal for him to do? Or am I being high maintenance?

M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14