Her original plan was to get the money from me, get a small mortgage from the bank and buy a house where she would live with D 12. I would have D12 alternate weekends but still see her during the week.
W new plan (I heard from D12) is to get the money from me and then move back home with her mother who llives less than a mile from us. If she moves in with her mother she will have no bills to pay, similar to what she has here with me. I fear this new plan will mean that she use the money from me to maintain a lavish life style for her and OM, but hey that’s not my problem.
As W is moving in with her mother I have instructed my solicitor to push for a 50:50 custody arrangement for D12, 50% of her time with me, 50% with MIL, sorry that should be W.
As well as the cat, W believes she can leave a lot of her stuff here(clothes, shoes etc) while she sorts her head out, or eventually buys a house.