wife hardends heart-3

[planet]

whoa. what a night.
L gave W a call to inform her of forms submission. She suspected something amiss but its just normal procedure. She questioned me and i unknowingly admitted meeting L in private.
We had a long chat with W getting angry, threatening, crying and drag-the-past-grievance out. I validated her feelings and stopped her when things got too far especially about my parents. She even admitted that i have been good to her in the past.
I asked if she agrees to give me full custody to which she declined. I asked for my share of our house being paid back to me and she agreed on a monthly repayment.
I told her i will be moving away this weekend.
She dreaded on telling my kids and felt shameful about informing everybody regarding the divorce.
And she did not even mentioned OM. Nothing. I thought she would come clean but no.