Knowing what to do and doing what you know are two entirely different things. I still have a ways to go to follow all of the advice I'd give.
I was actually thinking if it got to the point where I couldn't take much more at home and needed a break that I'd take a week or so from work and just go either stay with some friends out of town or out to our friend's parents lake house a couple hours away - they are never there. Just to get away from it all for one thing and two, to see how she reacts to it. I'm not there yet and really don't want to be but if I keep jumping to conclusions about another OM I just might have to do it.
Otherwise, I'm eating and physically active - I signed up for a 5k on Labor Day last night. It's just sharing the house with someone that isn't there emotionally really stinks..again.
M: 29 W: 29 T: 12 years M: 4 years Discovered OM: 02/10/12 ILYBNILWY: 03/01/12 W Moves Out: 05/04/12 Reconciliation Starts: 09/06/12 In-house Separation (Again): 03/09/13