Stop!!! your anxiety is reaching me across the ocean and the whole of the US!!!!

Why wouldn't you involve your W in the thinking and decisions about the house?

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Last night I saw a funny pic and sent it to her. Never heard anything back. That's fine as it wasn't a question just a funny pic.
If someone sends me a pic I always reply with something even if just a :-)


This will get you in a lot of trouble in all your Rs. Don't take everything personally and don't make up stories about what other people are thinking. You sent it, you thought it was funny and thought she might too. End of story. She might have laughed uproariously or thought it was silly beyond words. Doesn't matter.

Why haven't you agreed on money situations in the past. That's huge.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss