Lost, confused and trying to make a stand

[brobafet]

Okay in light of everything that is going on I found out last night that xW is indeed seeing someone else......and she is "in love with him"

Meeting him I'm guessing is what spurred I want a divorce. Which I know she met him about a week before she dropped bomb.

When my friend told me this (she is still in contact with xW) it upset me, but didn't surprise me. It is history repeating itself. I just want to be done with this. I want to escape her lies, and teach my children to see those lies. I don't know what to do other than vent here, vent with family, and try to step back onto my track. I don't want this news to make me back slide. It is running through my head but I'm not devastated by the news. I knew it was coming, I suspected, it just got confirmed though.

Please pray for me.