All very good points. LTH, you bring up something very interesting. I never really thought much about how this may affect daughter. I will have to ponder this a LOT more. It's not what I want. We all know what I originally wanted. I wanted to save my marriage. However, that is something that is clearly not going to happen. So, how long do I carry on being the whipping post? Wife is insensitive. Wife is selfish. Wife is taking advantage of my Mothers graciousness. These are all facts. How long do I continue to take it so that daughter doesn't feel the stress? Another year, another month, indefinitely? When do I get to have some peace, at my own home even? When do I get to move forward with my own life, without the strings and drama that wife brings to the equation? I still think she needs to go, but I will give this some more thought. Any additional input is greatly appreciated. Thanks everyone!