I like Wonka's advice, but listen, I got off FB because living my own life is very difficult while on it. I post for others benefits. Although it did drive H bonkers to see I was so happy lol! (the fake it 'til you make it strategy)

The whole tattoo issue is a great analogy for the way we all interpret individually the things we see and hear. How one person's interpretation of something is so not how you see it. Good lesson. Hard one, but good smile