I hear ya sthelen, I am putting off turning the page...I will follow your posts. know all sits are different but we have some similarities. My h is done but has not filed as of yet. not sure why. maybe its coming soon. we definitely had the work issues that got in the way of our marriage...lots of younger singles, lots of partying. my h in the position to pick up the tab(company $) I let h come back home three times without any question. im am working on me. trying to be positive and move forward. just wanted to say hey,I get it.
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13