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Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating sthelen #2378229 08/21/13 02:19 PM
Joined: May 2013 Posts: 162 S sthelen OP Member
OP sthelen Member S Joined: May 2013 Posts: 162	I am glad I sent the email, the cake eating had to be stopped regardless of the outcome of the marriage, for my self respect. But I've re-read it 100 times and am driving myself crazy with what I shoulda/ coulda said. But it definitely got the point across in a way that made it clear I'm still willing to save this marriage, and no ultimatums. Honestly, it was time. I have been nothing but patient, supportive and compassionate for 5 months. It was time for him to get a little dose of reality into his fantasy world...reality being I will not be Plan B. His cake is crumbling. And I'm strong enough and ready to take the risk that he won't care. I've come a long way. This is a new chapter.

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Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	08/20/13 07:33 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	08/20/13 07:35 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	08/21/13 03:50 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	08/21/13 05:10 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	08/21/13 02:19 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	willbwell	08/21/13 02:44 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	chasingpavements	08/21/13 05:38 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	08/21/13 08:01 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Accuray	08/21/13 08:24 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	subguy	08/21/13 08:31 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	subguy	08/21/13 08:32 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	08/27/13 02:21 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	09/18/13 10:20 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	BrightFuture	09/19/13 01:37 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	09/19/13 01:10 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Pudmuddle	09/19/13 01:25 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	labug	09/19/13 02:46 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	SemperFi00	11/13/13 03:46 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	11/15/13 02:36 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	tigerlily78	11/15/13 04:16 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	11/15/13 01:49 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	11/15/13 05:51 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	11/16/13 01:05 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	11/29/13 08:25 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	11/30/13 01:58 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	12/27/13 05:53 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	12/27/13 02:38 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	adinva	12/27/13 02:49 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	12/27/13 10:27 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	adinva	12/27/13 10:57 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	12/28/13 01:36 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	12/28/13 01:40 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	12/30/13 12:48 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/01/14 05:59 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Mimi00	01/01/14 08:18 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/01/14 08:30 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/04/14 03:12 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	2stubborn2quit	01/04/14 03:44 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	01/04/14 04:23 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	AnotherStander	01/04/14 07:56 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/10/14 01:51 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	JayMan	01/10/14 01:58 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/13/14 07:09 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	MrBond	01/13/14 07:24 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	01/13/14 07:31 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	3boymom	01/13/14 07:37 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/14/14 03:49 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/14/14 11:10 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	willbwell	01/14/14 11:47 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/14/14 01:15 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	melissag	01/14/14 02:05 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/14/14 06:42 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/14/14 06:45 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/15/14 05:44 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	01/15/14 10:19 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/15/14 11:50 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	01/16/14 09:49 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/19/14 03:16 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/19/14 10:01 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	01/20/14 02:18 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	01/20/14 03:48 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	01/20/14 03:52 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/22/14 05:02 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	01/26/14 06:10 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/27/14 11:20 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	01/28/14 06:13 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/28/14 09:03 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/31/14 12:37 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	melissag	01/31/14 04:47 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	willbwell	01/31/14 11:44 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	AnotherStander	01/31/14 01:17 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/31/14 06:14 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/31/14 10:57 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	GotoGirl	01/31/14 11:17 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/31/14 11:43 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	02/03/14 01:06 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	02/03/14 01:42 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	3boymom	02/03/14 03:25 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	AnotherStander	02/03/14 05:03 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	02/03/14 05:44 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	02/03/14 05:50 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	02/07/14 04:03 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	melissag	02/07/14 05:13 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	02/07/14 05:33 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	02/07/14 02:25 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	02/07/14 06:16 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	02/07/14 06:21 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	AnotherStander	02/07/14 08:16 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	02/08/14 07:26 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	01/14/14 02:45 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	AnotherStander	11/15/13 03:16 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	11/15/13 05:04 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	3boymom	01/14/14 02:32 PM

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