BA: I'm guessing that Joan might have just had a bad day & things came out of her mouth that really isn't a total picture of who she is or how she feels. Everyone seems to be really reading a lot into it.
Perhaps you are right, Barb. I think what has made me so leary of it is that I've been on two dates with her and this was something she brought up (complained about) both times. I really don't try to pick apart people looking for faults. I try to go into each encounter looking for success and not failure - it just seems like compatability on both sides has been escaping me lately!
