better to love or be loved?

[willbwell]

Rosalinda, I do have stuff to work on, battling with and accepting my part in all of this. realizing that I too have issues that maybe I don't want to acknowledge. I'm not the miss perfect wife that I like to believe I am. But, like you, I don't doubt that staying married to me is 100 times better than the train wreck that he is caught up in now.

I see my smart aleck ways... How to eliminate???