better to love or be loved?

[RosaLinda]

WillBWell "Rosalinda, please forgive me and I may get the 2x4, but my h says it was nothing that I did or did not do. 

It is just him. He doesn't want to be married anymore There is no list of things he gave me, no complaining"

i'm sorry too WBW, I did not mean to imply that you did anything wrong. I just meant that I appreciate the advice, because I do have a lot of things to work on, trying to work on. And that I hope that my H will see that my changes are permanent (some are 4 years old already!) and realize that staying married to me is 100 times better than getting divorced and marrying that Tramp OW of his.