I know my DB coach encouraged me to try to initiate casual contact around the house. I would think you should continue this contact. Maybe even offer the same rub down tonight??
Your life sounds busy and full stay focused on your kids and yourself. Loved your quote. A reminder of rich each of us for everyday we are given - its a gift.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13