Suckerpunch, moving ahead one way or another!

[MrCAS]

I think you need to use a different word than confront. It seems that you are already building it up before it happens. I would not have ANY contact with him ever if it could be avoided at all. Any contact will probably just end ugly.

Here is an idea... Ask your Mom to have W served with the papers. Have Mom serve a written warning to OM. This way you can throw your hands up in the air and say, "W, it was not me. I guess you really pushed Mom over the limit this time. What can I do? I don't own the property."

Judging from what you have posted in the past, it is not a stretch to see that there is no love lost between Mom and W.