I think I've had enough of the lies.

We still have had very little communication. He only talks to me via email when he needs something. However today might have pushed me over the edge.

He asked if his daughter (17) could stay with me until Sunday. I wasn't sure but I have known her since she was little. Her dad said she could stay with friends but thought it would be better if she stayed with me. Ok I didn't fall for that part; however I called her and asked her what she wanted. She wants to stay with me but only tomorrow and Thursday. She had already made plans with her friends for Friday and Saturday. So I agreed.

Well I spied and found out he bought an airline ticket that will have him gone for just about two weeks, oh yeah the trip is for work and ow will most likely be there.

I have no clue what to do with this. One of my friends says I should consider myself lucky that at least I know and could plan appropriately, what do you all think? I am so mad at myself for allowing this. I want to see my stepdaughter but he is abusing the situation

I am not using her to get information or trying to win him over I agreed SI ply because she wanted to stay with me and I like her but two weeks is a long time to assume I have no plans. Labor Day is even in there