Since we have so many commonalities in sitches, this stood out:
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She's also spent time figuring how others would take the news of her leaving. She doesn't want to be the bad guy. Which sometimes makes me wonder if this is really a MLC. Most MLC'ers don't care about their reputation or if they hurt others. Maybe she's a sensitive MLC'er?
I think we do have sensitive MLC'ers...yours seems to have not gone down the alien spew hate mode too much, mine seems to have recovered, BUT...mlc for sure, FY, for sure, do not doubt that...even if all the "mlc correct behaviors" are not there, the thoughts, self-search, running, and such do indicate mlc. And mlc instead of mid life transition because they want/wanted to throw all the old life away, and made effort to do so...whether quietly or not.
Hang in there, the stagnation pool is slowly draining, and good for you to keep moving forward with YOU... T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
