If I were you I wouldn't answer her at all. Call the police or a lawyer in the AM and ask what you can do. She might not have explained the situation fully.

Whatever you do be calm, this is where the rubber meets the road.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss