I feel like I do need to do something, La.

I am not going to willingly allow her to make her own rules and flaunt this all in my face...AT MY HOME, for God's sake! No way.

Also, she made some pretty vindictive comments. Grow up? How about she gets a job and supports herself? I am disrespectful? How about keep your adulterous activities out from under the nose of me and my family. Controlling? How is my asking her to keep her boyfriend away from my home "controlling". I mean the list goes on. She has become pretty ballsy and I think she needs a reality check.

She sent me the texts that I posted above in bold. I have not responded to them.

I had a talk about her moving on about a month and a half ago. She declined, saying that she was not going to do anything until we came up with a settlement and the divorce was finalized.

I am just spinning on what to do now.....no clue how to proceed


Me:46 Her:38
My D: 11
Her S: 8