I am not going to willingly allow her to make her own rules and flaunt this all in my face...AT MY HOME, for God's sake! No way.
Also, she made some pretty vindictive comments. Grow up? How about she gets a job and supports herself? I am disrespectful? How about keep your adulterous activities out from under the nose of me and my family. Controlling? How is my asking her to keep her boyfriend away from my home "controlling". I mean the list goes on. She has become pretty ballsy and I think she needs a reality check.
She sent me the texts that I posted above in bold. I have not responded to them.
I had a talk about her moving on about a month and a half ago. She declined, saying that she was not going to do anything until we came up with a settlement and the divorce was finalized.
I am just spinning on what to do now.....no clue how to proceed
If I were you I wouldn't answer her at all. Call the police or a lawyer in the AM and ask what you can do. She might not have explained the situation fully.
Whatever you do be calm, this is where the rubber meets the road.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
I have spoken with an attorney. Originally (months ago), she told me to file, which I have done....then to have wife served, and then to kick her out of the apartment. I am not sure if that is still something she (attorney) would recommend. I wonder if I should spend the money to discuss this with her, or just let it go like LA mentioned.
I would think that a business owner could ban anyone from the premises. Private property is still private.
My thoughts exactly
Originally Posted By: MrCAS
If I was the OM, I would be hesitant to get involved in that situation.
Again, my thoughts exactly.
Originally Posted By: MrCAS
Could be an eviction notice is in order?
is an eviction notice really required for a guest? I mean, it's not like she has a rental agreement or anything. I am not sure about the legalities regarding this sort of thing.
I have spoken with an attorney. Originally (months ago), she told me to file, which I have done....then to have wife served, and then to kick her out of the apartment. I am not sure if that is still something she (attorney) would recommend. I wonder if I should spend the money to discuss this with her, or just let it go like LA mentioned.
Whoa, whoa I said let it go before I read the texts where dhe explains her plan to bring him anyway.
My next post said talk to an attorney and/or call the police in the AM and get the straight scoop on what your rights are as a business owner. I don't think it's a good idea for you to answer her text until you have all the information.
Then figure out how to get her moved.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
is an eviction notice really required for a guest? I mean, it's not like she has a rental agreement or anything. I am not sure about the legalities regarding this sort of thing.
Could be, depends on where you lives. Squatters rights. In Georgia, tenants at will (or with no lease, month to month, etc) actually are entitled to more notice than those with a lease. I generally tell my clients that if they want that pesky relative, child, whomever, out of their house, they need to evict them.
I would definitely see an attorney about moving her out and keeping OM off the business/home property.
I would agree that he's pretty ballsy if he shows up for camping.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together
