A little recap on my sitch. My family owns a campground. We all work and live here. My house is also located on the property, along with my mothers home, brothers home and my sister and BIL's home. Wife decided on her own to move out of our marital home just after BD. She bailed on me and left me with all of our home costs. There is a studio apartment above our main registration office, and wife posted up in there. My family pays for her utilities and has been allowing her to stay there for roughly 8-9 months, with my persuasion. They want her gone and have so for a while now. I have been doing my best to keep them at bay. The apartment was even furnished when she moved in. She has been using it as her own space, even thought we previously used it for a storage area for all of our store merchandise. I perceive it as my family being VERY gracious. Keep in mind, she left me. Regardless, she is still being supported almost a year later.
She made a reservation to come camping on August long weekend. We comped her stay, again very gracious I believe. NOW, she is demanding that OM will be coming to our property to visit with friends and take in a retirement party taking place in our campground. I said no way. That was where I drew the line. Now, she is pitching a fit, and mentioning that she has even gone so far as to contact the police to see if I had legal course to disallow him in our business....she is out of her mind, extremely selfish, projecting her anger onto me and making it seem like I am controlling her....controlling her for not allowing her Boyfriend to hang out in my backyard???...haha....This is insane to me.
I am just looking for advice on how to handle this situation. I have calmed down enogh now, that I know I will need to make a head smart decision on how I deal with it.....even though I would love to give them both a couple lumps on their heads
I just can't believe how hurtful, tactless and selfish she has become. I expressed to her, a little over a month ago, that I would be pulling away from her in order to save myself emotionally. I even asked her to please start removing her belongings from the house and start seeking a new place to live. She declined. The funny thing is, She has told me over and over again during this process that she hates hurting me. Now she wants to bring her boyfriend to my home?????? It's just BONKERS!!!! What can I do here?
