Thanks RH, I hope you are right. I just know W was broken since childhood, and never loved herself. Always had a social anxiety, disliked being around others because she feared judgement. This caused her to cling to me (and me to her) and avoid social interaction.
Can you say stagnation?
Of course that's all changing now, and she's coming out of her shell and reinventing herself. It's no wonder she doesn't want me, I represent the old her she's running from.
Yes she does have the $$$$ to leave. She's also spent time figuring how others would take the news of her leaving. She doesn't want to be the bad guy. Which sometimes makes me wonder if this is really a MLC. Most MLC'ers don't care about their reputation or if they hurt others. Maybe she's a sensitive MLC'er?
Originally Posted By: RH
He (H) was undeniably attracted to me...
I wish I could say that about W.
With all that's going on in your life, you are so kind to hang out here and help us all. Thank you so much, RH.
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So, sometimes we fret too much over our sitch, (I'm looking at you RosaLinda) and that's where I am right now. Time to exit the MLC museum and put the focus elsewhere.
Construction at work is winding down, I'm hoping to offer my TKD class again real soon. This class has been my favorite GAL by far.
I also signed up for a new online course, (my 4th since BD!) It's called "get funny" and teaches us how to be funny. So if I ever made you spit water, (I'm looking at you uRw) you might want to make sure to swallow before opening my posts.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl