Friday night was our hair apt and I resisted the urge to call when he was running late to see if he was actually going to come by here to get me or not. I just sat down at the computer and played cards.

He picked me up and we chatted about his work on the way to the apt. Then he went first as she lets his color set while she does mine. He said he had noticed the gray in his hair this time. He has never noticed before and of course I'm thinking either J mentioned it or he noticed because of J. But I was good and didn't say anything. We had our usual sort of joking around with the hair dresser.

When it was my turn he sit off to the side and looked like he was going to sleep. I chatted with hd about my dinner the other night and asked if she had ever been to the restaurant. Told her about Kevin coming in to check on sheltie puppy.

So when we left, he said he needed to get back to work. I asked if we had time to go by the pharmacy and pick up my prescription. He said what about tomorrow I was thinking of coming by tomorrow if you are going to be around. I said sure that would be fine. Then I asked him about grabbing some dinner, he wasn't going too, but I was betting he hadn't had lunch and turns out he hadn't. Se we did Arby's drive thru and he dropped me at the house. I gave him quick hug and told him to be careful. He told me to be careful, wonder if there was a double meaning there, as I wasn't going anywhere and gave him a funny look. He said well, today, tomorrow the next day. I said ok have a good evening and he left. I carried my dinner in and ate it and played with the shelties. It was a pretty good evening.

This apt he had went 6 weeks, and normally does 5 so our next apt he scheduled for 4 weeks as he said his hair was driving him crazy couple weeks ago. That will be the end of Feb. so still a few weeks before our court date. This all really seems strange.


Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"