Alright, she called at work to ask about a mutual client I had in today. I did ask about the boys and if she was able to get her concert dates locked in, which she did, so I am not going, which means BOYS NIGHT!!! I'm going to plan something fun to do with them.

I did ask if she wanted to go to the MC on friday, stating that I don't want to push her. She said that she would talk to her IC about it!??!?! It pisses me off how she uses him as an excuse. Part of the reason I moved out was because she said we would go on dates and have family time, but now IC said we see too much of each other.

I was ready to move back in and tell her that if she isn't going to stick to what she promised, we wold have to cohabit and live our own lives separate in the same house, but her agreeing to see a MC made me back off.

I asked her, if it was your decision what would you choose and she said "It can't hurt" and then I started talking about work again.

I wish we didn't have so many connections between work and the kids, it makes it so hard on me. I get so excited hearing her voice, but I maintained my cool and PMA!


Me-41 W-41
M-20y
2 teen sons 1 preteen son
BD/ilybinilwy 6/8/13
I moved out 7/24/13