Originally Posted By: AnotherStander


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She had agreed to therapy with me, but I'm staring to wonder if it would just be a waste.


It is absolutely a waste. When one spouse has one or both feet out the door, MC never helps. They just go to check it off their list of "things I tried to save the M but that proved that it was over anyway".




Thank you AS, for every word you posted. I need to work on my control and patience. I have Sandi's rules taped up near my desk at work, and look at it often, but I think I need to put them in the car and near my bed too.

So do I cancel MC? apponitment is this Friday. I think I would have to cancel by tomorrow...


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