Well my situation is very out of the ordinary. I work in the film industry and my average work week is 75 - 90 hours.
Is it still or have you cut back since BD? That's got to be rough on your W raising a D by herself. Lots of resentment can form when one spouse spends all their time at work.
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When I come home on the weekends it is like we are one big happy family. We sleep in the same bed together but there is no touching. We go out together. We talk about future vacations. We cook together we watch dinner and movies together. We are one big happy family.
Sounds familiar. My W and I continued on like a happily married couple for a couple of months after BD. We even continued to ML. Anyone that saw us out would have thought everything was fine. But she was still done and she still moved out. So don't try to read anything into it.
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It is like she is holding on to me to see what I have become.
In my W's case she was just being nice and biding her time until she could move out. I made the mistake of getting hopeful, I really thought things were turning around. But I way underestimated just how done she was. Most LBS's do.
