Originally Posted By: T1000
I think I am also concerned right now that if I put myself out there a lot it won't be reciprocated.
It's an awkward time because I feel like I'm in the middle. I'm trying to balance the pursuing, not enough and she goes cold, too much and she might run off.


I totally get that. I feel exactly this way right now. I wish there was a manual for this situation. How do we pick up signals to know what to do?


Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)