better to love or be loved?

[willbwell]

venting ahead...disappointment that h doesn't value commitment and family. he wants to have a relationship with kids but doesn't want to do anything in regards to parenting. just wants to buy me out. I'm the hired help.

just let me vent here...DB'ing is for working on me, focusing on me. Is it possible that in reality, it is not something that we did or did not do towards the breakdown of our M, but rather that our spouses are selfish and self-centered?

kids here, have to go . more later