Yes, I do want to leave D with positive thoughts. I know the court date and settlement are too close now for anything to work out. He won't have the new system set up for a few more weeks at least and he will focus totally on that for now. Plus any free time he has will probably be spent with J, but even though at times I feel very angry and vindictive, that isn't what I feel inside and that isn't the way I want him to remember me.
Pam -- Working with these ASSumptions will change the way that you interact NOT FOR THE BETTER. You KNOW that a beginner's mind (and releasing expectation and ASSumptions) are KEY to DB'ing success.
Please...try to readjust your ASSumption. Act "as if" if that's all you can do for now.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
