Originally Posted By: mathwichi
I don't get #29. A 180 from what again?


29. Know that if you can do 180's, your smallest CONSISTENT actions will be noticed much more than any words you can say or write.

Mathwichi, have you heard the phrase - actions speak louder than words? By following Sandi's rules then any small actions that you take, your spouse will notice. For example - When I started applying Sandi's rules and not contacting my H, all of a sudden he was contacting me more.
Hope this helps smile


H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!