The reason why I am advocating for a sprinkling of WOA and now AOS is that, as you say, H is a "kitten" compared to the 'cruel' male MCLers as shown on this board in other threads. And H does not recoil from your touches.
The key for WOA is to be used sparingly and truly genuine. Not just for the sake of it. Like wise for AOS.
As for H possibly initiating R talk when he returns from Russia, it may or may not happen. Try not to think too far ahead. I know it [censored] that he's flying out the same day you're having surgery. It is the time for you to surround yourself with loved ones who support you and make you feel good.
It is very good that you're going to England soon for it will be a good change of scenery for you and get your mind off from your sitch. Be sure to tuck in a good curry dish! British folks love their curry and there's more curry restaurants in that country outside of India.
