Love the castle analogy...thank you! I was pressuring him and I shouldn't be, you're absolutely right. I continue to struggle with resentment when he says he can't think of one thing he's done wrong and paints himself as victim, but I realize that's how is has to/is going to be for now. I also continue to struggle with showing him the love and affection he's asked for and making sure he's not cake eating as he continues to talk with the woman he swears is a friend...but I guess I don't have much to lose on that front. I've found I can detach somewhat from what I'm saying, and while I truly mean it I don't hang my hat on it bringing him back. Rather, I'm doing it for me as it allows me to show him things he's accused me of being incapable of demonstrating.
Me: 26 H: 28 T:8 M:5 D:2 BD:4/1/13 Separated 6/6/13 Filed separation 6/21/13 Waiting for D papers to be served, H says filed
