One giant leap forward! - Part 4

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Thanks for the input ladies!

I think I need to get it out of my head that her not getting a sitter or preplanning doesn't prove her interest or not.

Last Tuesday night we watched a movie and chilled out. W was on her phone a bit. It was a waste.

Sunday we chatted on the sofa, had dinner at the table and chatted. Totally different, very worth while. A sitter would be much better but we could do that many times and gain from it.

Affection never just meant sex but my M really did lack affection.
On Sunday we stood quite close when we were dishing the food up and she said that it felt like I was too close. Not in a I don't want to be close kind of way, it just felt weird to her.

I brushed her leg a few times when we talked and I took something out of her hair.

Hugging when I leave makes sense. Hugging for no reason right now would feel ridiculous to me. We are not in that place yet or at least I'm not. We need to be closer for that.
I will try more, it just feels like I'm missing a step. Come to think of it I have never really been affectionate before sex has taken place. I'm not saying affection implies or should lead to sex. It's like sex opens the door to affectionate feeling afterwards. After that point any affection at any time is suitable.

I was testing her with the hug towards the end. I wanted to know if the hug was something she was doing to be friendly because I wanted it or was it something she also wanted. I got my answer. I felt like I could follow up on the 'no underwear' comment in a cheeky way so that is why I grabbed her ass and I believe that has tweaked her interest a little this week.

I thought all things considered I have kept the sexual side of things toned down up to now, especially as that is something that she wants to happen sooner.