I don't need my H to be happy. But I want him. I want him to want me. I do need hugs. I get a lot of physical affection from other people but it doesn't replace being held in your husband's arms.
RL I would think every person on this board could have written that. What we are trying to do in our posts is to move the focus on from looking back like Lot's wife at what was, and forward to you living your life as happily as possible in the present circumstances.
You are still kicking against what is, the way you want your husband to be. But, honey, he isn't that way right now, and all the fretting in the world will not change it.
