GM, I'm glad that you and the boys had a nice time away. All of you needed that break. I'm sorry to hear that your mom's arm isn't healing as well as expected, but I'm glad that you spent time w/her on her birthday. I do hope that you or someone in the family took photos.
As for your h, well, he wants to move on, but he's stuck, i.e., somewhat like the hamster on the wheel. They all say that they want to or have moved on and yet, they are right there still sticking it to us. You are so correct when you said that he wanted a different result from the therapy sessions for the boys. Unfortunately, he didn't hear wanted he wanted, so he feels that the therapist isn't any good. This is very typical mlc behavior. I'm am very sorry that you are having to deal w/this and having to pay the bill as well. I do hope that something can be worked out and he will be advised to pay the bill.
Sounds like he's putting all of his eggs in one basket when it comes to your ability to refinance. He really is a piece of work, isn't he?
GM, he's going to be like this for quite a while. He's not a happy person and when they aren't happy, no one is. He doesn't realize what a wonderful person you are and that he has two great boys. It's such a shame.
How are you and the boys doing? School should be starting soon there. Are they are ready to go back?
BTW, you might want to start a new thread. I think I'm poster 115.
Please, please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
