Xh is refusing to pay for the boys' therapy. This is something he pushed for, but because he's not getting the immediate results he wanted he is "done." This is what I told the attorneys and therapist would happen. Xh feels entitled to a R with the boys whether it's in their best interest or not. The therapist told him that it has to be on their terms. Xh wants something for his money. He can't force the boys to love him anymore than I could have forced him to stay in a M with me. Getting the boys into therapy was never about their emotional health and healing. It was about manipulating the outcome that xh wanted. Now I'm stuck paying a big bill that I can't afford or my boys will be without the therapy that they were just starting to benefit from.
No settlement yet. Xh contacted the mortgage broker trying to get information on my refi. He's banking on my failure to secure a loan and is writing the settlement terms with that perceived outcome.
This is all so sick. I do not understand why he isn't moving on with his life and allowing me to rebuild mine.
