I have a lot to learn though about how I view him. And I how I treat him. I need to remeber that my thoughts become actions and words. He is on his own journey and while it may hurt me at times still, I cant do anything about it and I cannot continue to judge him.
That is awesome!!! Sounds like you are doing much better and that is nice to hear.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.