Good question, one I've done a lot of soul-searching about over the last couple of weeks and the answer has to be, if he asks.
I need to clarify this for me: if he asks but i won't be walking behind him with an sun shade or hovering waiting on him to falter. He's going to have to work at a solution and search me out if he needs me. I can't let him think I don't believe he can do it on his own.
Thanks for helping me work through this.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss